I don’t want him, but he doesn’t want me!

This is something that we all do, whether we choose to admit it or not. Ladies, you know that guy who’s always trying to take you out, do nice things for you, spend a little time? But you ignore him because he’s not so exciting, not as fine as Boris Kodjoe, not the guy you really want…

Guys, you do it too! Why do we really ignore that guy or girl? We roll our eyes when they call or send a text, we think to ourselves that they just don’t get it and then we run around pursuing the person that we really want. Have you ever noticed that the person you really want is doing the exact same thing to you? You have become that guy or girl that keeps texting them, calling them and just trying to spend a little time with them.

I sat down the other day and thought about this. Most of us are not letting God choose who we should be with; we’re trying to do the choosing ourselves. What if that guy who’s a little more quiet and reserved is the guy that God is putting in your face? What if that chick that is kinda cute but not doing it like Halle, is really ordained to be the love of your life?

We are so wrapped up in what we want, that we will completely look past a blessing that God has set forth for us. He has hand picked and gift wrapped this person, and we still look past them.

So here’s my opinion, cause everyone’s entitled to it….
Open your eyes to what God has in store for you. Let him play match maker, cause he knows exactly who to set you up with. Stop running from a possible Love Connection!!

Britt