Dating younger men…..

It’s come to my attention recently that I must have already dated every available man my own age in Texas. I’m not saying this because I date a lot, or have had many boyfriends or relationships. I’m saying this because I’m only meeting younger men. Now when I say younger, I don’t mean 25, 26 or 27…..I mean 21, 22 & 23. These are kids, and they seem to take offense when you call them that too so be careful. These kids have no problem with dating a woman pushing 30. Now I do admit that I have a sparkling personality and can see why these children are drawn to me, but WHERE ARE THE MEN?????

Now don’t get me wrong, these kids are cute, they have stamina and like to have fun; some of them even have great conversation. But at some point the cuteness and the kickin’ it wear off, and then you have to have some substance. These are my questions: What kind of future can we have together? Should these kids just be for entertainment purposes or can you have a life with them? At some point do you forget that there’s a 6, 7 or 8 yr difference? Maybe it just works for some and not for others. Madonna & Guy Ritchie seem happy, on the other hand Pam Grier was 13 yrs older than her fiancé and it fell apart.

So here’s my opinion, cause everyone’s entitled to it….
Follow your heart. Don’t miss out on a blessing cause of something so simple. If nothing else, you may have stumbled upon an amazing friend that can help to keep you youthful.

Brit

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Alba Botanica

Now that some of that horrible winter weather has passed, our skin needs to be well prepared for that beautiful spring weather, unless, of course, you’re in Houston where it’s cloudy and rainy 50% of the time. And when the sun finally does come out, we all should be protected with sunscreen. Now I know some of you are saying, “I have sunscreen in my makeup” or “I tried one, but it leaves a greasy mess.” Unless you want to look like a raisin when you are 40, you need to wear one that’s greater than SPF15 and use it EVERYDAY. And I have found the best one out there so far, care of Alba Botanica. I use the Alba Hawaiian SPF30 as a base for my make-up and it never leaves my skin oily. But not only is their sunscreen the best, so are their other skin products like the Sea Algae Enzyme facial scrub. The scrub is a fine grain so it’s gentle but still super cleansing. When I feel a hormonal zit coming on, I scrub this on it and the blemish disappears. I discovered this line at Whole Foods, but now it’s available at CVS and Walgreens. So ladies, let’s get to work on making everyone jealous with our flawless, glowing faces when spring arrives!

MAC

Second Chances

Have you ever done something so bad that you just knew you would never get that opportunity back- only to find yourself in that same situation again? What do you do at that time? Do you, once again, buckle and find yourself regretting another decision? Do you run from it and do nothing with it because of being scared of the outcome? I hope you take the opportunity to strive forward and overcome the last obstacle that stood in your way. Take that second chance and persevere. Sometimes it takes that second round to appreciate what God has blessed us with. Sometimes it takes us falling down to know how to get back up and succeed. Don’t be afraid to fall….You only get one first chance…but you also only get one second…...

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Just Around the Corner

Ladies and Gentlemen,

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With gifts sets with names such as a Recipe for Sweetness or Recipe for Ecstasy how can one not be intrigued? There are even Gifts for Him so check it out shipping is free with a purchase of $75 or more.

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Flaws and All

So often I look in the mirror and find flaws within myself that I used as handicaps to leave me stagnant where I am in life. It is so easy to find things to make us complacent in life and to leave us not wanting to do better. For what ever reason, may it be fear, stress, or anything else not going our way, we tend to be okay with finding our flaws and blaming it on that. Lets take charge of our life- let go of the things that keeps us in fear about ourselves. So what you have a handicap? God placed you here to be a blessing… I challenge you to skip over your flaws and find your calling….
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The Best and the Worst of SAG Awards!!!

As you all know Hollywood finally got to step out on the red carpet for the Screen Actor's Guild Award show on Sunday, January 27, 2008. As usual you had your best and your worst dressed on the red carpet and FWM's has for you our top 3 picks for best and worst dressed.

Amanda Bynes looks like a fairy princess from a far away time in her gown.

While Sandra Oh looks oh so horrible in her dress that looks like a package waiting to be unwrapped and hopefully thrown away!

49 year old Michelle Pfeiffer looks absolutely stunning in her chic toupe essemble.

Aside from looking like a stand in from Dreamgirls we will let you make up your own minds on Chandra Wilson's 1960's getup.

What else needs to be said here??? Who can resist Hair Spray cutie Zac Efron?

One word to Phoebe Price...HORRIBLE! Here is a case where the stylist needs to be fired immediately!

Pick of the day!

Ladies here is an idea for Valentine's Day! Scarves are all the rage this season so why not pick up a scarf like this one from Burberry for the man you love!

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Esteem Yourself!

Do you find yourself sometimes explaining and defending yourself for the benefit of others? Putting yourself in situations that bring you down, while others get empowered by your need to respond to the ignorance of questioning. Do you say " No more explaining myself" only to be confronted with a bombardment of question that you now feel destined to answer? Don't let the insecurities of others make you feel obligated to defend yourself. Sometimes we become vulnerable to our loved ones, thinking that we have to pacify their need by constantly assuring them of their self worth…..I know of a comedian who said "self esteem is exactly that….Esteem for YOURSELF" …. Let us remember that yes, it is our job to help our fellow loved ones see their inner beauty- but not in the wake of destroying our own…….. I love how you need no explanation to make you you….. I love how you know who you are……



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Pick of the day!

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Write it Down!

Greetings Bloggers!

We are now 3 weeks into the New Year and we should be on our way to PROSPERITY, GROWTH, and SELF-EMPOWERMENT. What goals have you made? Have you written them down?

No matter what sort of plan you are on, you always hear the words: journal, diary, log, spreadsheet, etc. I’m no fan of writing things down. Writing your goals gives you a physical reminder of the things that you either are completing with success or the things that you have yet to accomplish. Depending on how you set your goals, your list can be depressing. Let’s take baby steps shall we?

Don’t let January pass by without making a list of goals for the year. I’m always on the internet so I saved my list as a Word document. I got a job so I’m on a roll so far!! Of course weight loss is on my list. I’ve been attempting to lose weight for the last 8 years; so far I’ve lost 15lbs in 6 weeks!

At any rate, try to accomplish at least one goal per month whether it is large or small. You should also look and your list every night as a subtle reminder. As always, I’d love to hear from you guys. Share your list with me, share your progress also.

Your favorite gal pal,
KC

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Munsingwear

Valentine’s is fast approaching and I’m sure we all are thinking about what to get our boyfriends and husbands. Well, we should go back to the days of when our fathers and grandfathers were dressing for work. I’m not talking about purchasing suits with big lapels or the “classic” ruffled-front shirt. I’m talking about the maker of those decades old styles…Munsingwear. If your father or grandfather shopped at Montgomery Wards department store, they will know what you are talking about, unless your mother or grandmother used to shop for them. Before Tommy, Ralph and Nike, the button downs and golf shirts were from Munsingwear. And today, Munsingwear is using their old golf line, Penguin (http://www.originalpenguin.com/), as a way to come back into the lives of 20 and 30 year olds. With the subtle throwback of some of the best designs of previous decades incorporated into their current lines, their clothes come off hip with effortless style. And, of course, since our man will be looking fine, isn’t it fair we dress equally chic wearing the women’s line?

MAC

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Greetings Bloggers!

Another year has come and gone and subtracted from my life. I have been in existence for 32 years now and what does this mean? If you ask my mother she says that I’m knocking on 40’s door . . . . NOT!! For me 32 means coming into my own and figuring out what I want out of the rest of my life. It’s about discovering ME, and cleaning up my house (refer to Jan 14 blog).

I’ve always considered myself to be outspoken but I hope to take it to another level this year. I’m outspoken socially but I tend to be reserved when I get the shaft. NO MORE!! This is the year that I stop getting trampled on. Where peace does not abide I will dust my feet and move on . . sound familiar?

Hopefully this will be the year that I’m able to go to sleep before midnight! For some reason I’m actually looking forward to this year. Could it be that I’m on the verge of a breakthrough? I sure hope so, I could certainly use one. I’ve survived a lot during my short stint on earth and I’m sure that I’m only being prepared for bigger hurdles to come but that’s okay too.

Since I never hear from any of our readers, I’m going to assume that you all wish me a HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Go out to lunch or dinner and celebrate with me wherever you are!!

Your favorite gal pal,
KC

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Love Your Man

Well Ladies

It is getting closer to February the month of LOVE! As Valentine's Day approaches it is time to think of something special to do...yes for HIM! Valentine's Day is not just a day for your significant other to do for you but a time to do for him as well! Here are some ideas that could really spice up Valentine's Day for the man in your life.

Netflix a movie your man would like, spread a blanket in the middle of the room where you will be watching the movie, add some candles, and popcorn and his other favorite snacks to complete the evening.

Does you man have a favorite candy from the past? Well check out this site that allows you to purchase old school candy! Candy Wearhouse. com Remember jujubes?

You can always end any night right by investing in some great lotion or massage oil. I recommend Body Time, Saffron Rouge, Carol's Daughter, and Nu Body Spa. As well as more familiar places like Victoria Secret, Bath and Body Works and the Body Shop.

Or why not start the month out right by leaving him his favorite treats and love notes all over the house during the month of February telling him how much you love and appreciate him. Check out Papyrus or try P.S. I Love You for cute note cards with which to express your love and devotion to that special man during the month of LOVE.

But if you are just looking for great tips, recipes, movies, etc... to please your man check out the The Husband Project. This website is full of ideas of how to improve your relationship with your man as well as creative ideas to spice up the relationship.

As we go into the month of LOVE let's show some appreciation for the men in our lives!

Tiffany B.

Girlfriends

Last night one of my closest friends and I had a girls night out at her church. It really made me appreciate healthy women relationships. I know sometimes its hard for us women to find healthy friendships that are interesting or that are or are wanting to be just as equally yolked. We should all take some time to re-evaluate our friendships. Find those friends who can uplift you as well as make you laugh. The one you can cry on her shoulder and confide in her. It's important that we as women learn how to communicate with each other, just as it is for us to communicate with the opposite sex. God has placed us all on this Earth to be examples to one another. Since we as women are very observant people, it is important that we constantly have friends around us that uplift us and hold us accountable for the better thing is life. Take time to care about you who bring into your life for a lifetime and cherish those relationships. I know I cherish all of my friend regardless of distance and time apart……you are very special to me and I thank God for you all daily……..

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Thank God for that Man!

I love having a man I can depend on. A man that will fulfill all my needs and wants, while still being gentle with me and holding me through the night. He provides a roof over my head and food for me and my family. He is strong and courageous and listens to my wants and needs- not necessarily giving them all to me, but He makes sure I have what is most important. And I know I disappoint Him from time to time, but He never turns his back on me. Yeah- sometimes He has to put me in my place, but that’s only to ensure I learn from my mistakes. Some people may call that controlling, but I relinquish all my control to Him anytime. He has never steered me wrong and I know He never will. So I encourage you all to find that one man you can depend on. The one that makes you feel beautiful, who give you courage, who provides for you through thick and thin. I normally am very selfish with what is mine, but He always tells me what He has for me is for me, so I don’t mind letting you all get a piece of Him either. Take as much as you want- there is enough of Him to go around! Come into my world. Enjoy your happiness as I do. He is the provider of all my needs and can be the provider of all yours too! Don't be ashamed- He's ready for you. And yeah He's keeping me- but I never feel cheated……because God is all the man I need to depend on.

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Layaway Vacations

Greetings Bloggers!

Have you planned your summer vacation yet? Do you take a trip every year? Visiting relatives doesn’t count. I’m talking about a real vacation, maybe to the islands, out of the country, or even Vegas. Sound affordable? A trip to Disney can cost about $6000 for a family of four which sounds way expensive but not if you put it on layaway.

Think about where you’ve always wanted to go and book it. Most travel agents will require a deposit and the balance due 30 days before the trip. Who can’t travel under those terms? If you’re like me you plan your trips out a year or more in advance. Layaway vacations allow my family to travel 5 star all the way. It’s the only time that I spend money without questioning cost or consequences. For one week my family gets to live life in the “Fab Lane.” Here are some trip ideas to get your juices flowing:

Ochos Rios- Couples Resort- sure there are lots of different resorts in Ochos Rios (been 4 times) but none of them are like Couples. Their private beach is the largest, some excursions are already paid for (Dunn’s River Falls), and the people rock! You can stay for 6 nights for about $1900pp that translates into $200down and $170 a month for 10months! Most of you blow that kind of money on dining out alone. Anywhere in Jamaica is pretty cheap.

Mexico- Again, think luxury, exclusive. Try the Riviera. It’s about 30 minutes from Cancun and there are lots of palatial resorts that are out of this world!

If you have kids then of course Orlando is pretty much unavoidable. When traveling out of the country you should look into all inclusive resorts. They usually have 7 or 8 restaurants, and of course all the booze you can handle. All inclusive resorts are the most affordable and you definitely get more bang for your buck.

Start planning and if you need more suggestions or specifics let me know.

Your favorite gal pal,
KC

Technology Meets Fashion

Greetings Bloggers!

Unless you’ve been under a rock for the last couple of months you’ve heard all the hype about the new I-Phone from AT&T. I kept hearing that it’s so cool so I decided to check it out. IT’S COOL! Everyday you read articles about fashion from hair, clothes, shoes, etc. but what about your technological accessories? As of yesterday this was me: $800 Gucci tote bag, $165 BCBG boots, $60 jeans (can’t bring myself to pay more for jeans), $40 crew neck tee, fresh perm, manicure . . . . cell phone-the FREE DINOSAUR!! If you’ve been reading the blog you know that I was laid off 2 years ago. After being laid off I bought a cheap phone and have lost about 3 phones since. My husband gave me his hand me down phone from the dark ages to use until I either got a new job or prove that I was capable of keeping a phone for longer than 1 month.

I met a friend for lunch yesterday and she pulled out her new crimson Blackberry Curve and it was at that moment that I realized how unfashionable I was. Took a trip to the store and checked out all the latest PDA’s available. At the end of the day guess who walked out with a new Tilt phone?? Any guesses?

The I-Phone is great, however it’s strictly for entertainment purposes, a cool gadget. If you conduct a lot of business then you may want to look into some other PDA options. The AT&T Tilt can do all that the I-Phone can plus about 50 more things, and most important . . . it’s high fashion!! Buyer beware, this phone retails for $549 but of course you can knock about $150 off with a new contract.

You don’t have to purchase a phone of that magnitude to be fashionable, however if your phone is thicker than 20 credit cards and resembles one of the first flip models, it’s time for an upgrade!

In short, when you think of fashion think of fashion from your head to your toes. Think of fashion in everything that you own: linens, housewares, stationary, etc. Your assignment for today is to go into your purse, bathroom, kitchen and find something that’s beyond outdated and upgrade it! If you have some old television from your college days that has to warm up for 20 minutes before the picture is clear (me), upgrade!! Do you have a remote control for every device in your house? Consolidate!

Upgrade yourself and your possessions!

Your favorite gal pal,
KC

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Taking Back Control

How many times have you been so determined to succeed in a task- only to find you're failing before you set all the goals? Have you made the decision to do a spiritual fast for a specific amount of time, giving up something you knew was going to be easy, only to find out you now what that one thing more than life its self???

Or have you said to yourself "Self I will NOT be taken advantage of anymore"- of course only after you do this, does that one person call who knows they can get you to do anything- even when you don't want to- and of course you do it…. When does our perseverance kick in? When do you stand by what means so much to you and not let others- or even ourselves-sway our agendafor our life? Perseverance can only be achieved when we continue to fight through the turmoil, through the doubts, through the inconsistencies.

Only then can we really know what it means to persevere….. Let's all choose to make this a year of perseverance….A year of pushing through difficulties in spite of. Let's take back our control.

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Squeaky Clean?

I am sure we have all heard and read about changing our shampoo every so often since it loses potency after awhile, but what about our soap? So you are thinking, “Soap? All I need it for is to take dirt off my skin and make me smell respectable at my thankless job where there is no eye candy for me to look at.” Well, maybe not all of us are thinking that. Anyways, we should think twice about our soap. Some claim to be moisturizing and creamy, but if so, then why do we glob on a pound of lotion and creams right after showering? Not that I am one to give up my lotions, but we all could use some moisturizing while we are in the shower, right? Well, Olivia Care has a line of soaps called “The O Line” that are some of the best soaps I have ever used. Made with pure olive oil, their soaps will have your skin feeling softer than ever and are great for sensitive skin. Oh, and one other great piece of info to share with you all, they are available at Marshall’s and TJ Maxx. But remember to leave me a box, Green Tea preferably.

MAC

No Doubt

Doubt is a terrible thing. It can come and change the whole outcome of a situation you deemed great. It can create insecurities and concerns that are petty and inconsistent with what you possibly have going on That’s why God asks us to place all of our cares and concerns on his shoulder. That way, when doubt creeps into our hearts and mind, we can just turn to Him and give all of the insecurities to Him.

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Clean Your House

Greetings Bloggers!!

The New Year will present itself with the some of the same stuff as last year: challenges, heartbreak, happiness, growth, gains, losses, new friendships, and termination of expired friendships. Even though some things will never change, we can. I claimed 2008 as OUR year for what? PROSPERITY, GROWTH, AND SELF-EMPOWERMENT! Don’t forget this is our mantra for the year.

In order for us gain all that is ours and more we must first clean house. If you have a junky house and a full closet there isn’t any room left to accept the new things, right? RIGHT!! Here is what we have to do:

1. Sweep away your pride- One of the hardest things to do is to forgive those that have wronged us. Why should we? For starters if you are over the age of 16 and you are holding a grudge, you look like a complete DUMB*SS!! Odds are the grudge is over something trivial anyway.

2. Dust the haters off- Everyone is not your friend. As a matter of fact, some of the friends you have at this moment aren’t even your friends!! Don’t be fooled. Stay focused on your goals and ambitions, and keep some things to yourself. It’s great to have friends but who wants to take the time to investigate who’s genuine and who isn’t? Find the one person that you can trust and leave the rest as acquaintances. Gone are the middle-school days where it was the norm to have a posse of friends and 4 or 5 best friends (BFFs). Confiding in multiple people only causes confusion, increases gossip, envy, and guess who will be at the center of it all?? YOU! Be cordial and stay neutral.

3. Mop up hatred- If you were holding grudges in 2007, let it burn! You are holding the grudge and the person that you are holding the grudge against has moved on to bigger and better things. Not to mention holding grudges is a sure way to block your blessings. God forgives us every minute of everyday. God is in all of us. With that said, how is it that you can say you love God but can’t forgive someone? Please. If you are holding a grudge, let it go. Once you let it go sincerely, you will be amazed at the blessings you receive.

4. Wash out envy- Don’t be jealous of someone else’s material possessions or status. It’s not he that wins the race; the glory is given to he that endures!! That was deep! “DO YOU!” If you are constantly comparing yourself to someone, get away from them.

5. Vacuum self pity- “Why me?” or “Why not me?” Get over it and get on with it! I find that self pity is like a fungus. Once it enters your soul it grows and gets larger and more harmful. Most of us that pity ourselves do so because we are too lazy to claim what is ours and go after it. Think about it. If you were on track and actively working towards your goals, pity would have no place to reside!

6. Polish away fear- I cannot tell you how many business ideas I have had over the years that have never materialized because I was afraid. I was afraid that no one would take me seriously, afraid of failure, probably afraid of success as well. Fear will kill your spirit faster than you will be able to recognize. The first step in getting over your fear is recognizing it. Stop creating mental barriers to your own success. We are often our own worse enemies when WE should be our best friends. I have come to realize that fear is a way of saying, “No thank you.” That’s hogwash my friends. You can’t prosper if fear is in the way. Start polishing!

7. Take the trash to the curve- Once we have collected all the trash (pride, haters, envy, haters, self pity, fear) it’s time to take it to the curve and let the garbage man pick it up. Who might this garbage man be? I’ll give you a clue. Some people call him God, others have their own name but he remains the same. Question: When you take out your trash on Sunday night for the garbage man, do you ever go back through it before it’s picked up? If you do, don’t admit it! Of course you don’t. Trash is trash and I’m sure that none of you dig through trash. Once the trash is on the curve, LEAVE IT THERE!!

CLEAN YOUR HOUSE my friends it’s HARVEST time!!

Your favorite gal pal,
KC

Be Prepared!

Ladies,

I am a huge football fan. More than being a football fan I LOVE the DALLAS COWBOYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now I know this is a blog about fashion and I was fashionably attired yesterday at the sports bar (and later at my cousin's house) while we were watching the game. I had on a boat neck 3/4 sweater, 7 jeans, a black short blazer, and a gorgeous pair of ankle boots from Harold's. Shouts out to my Dallas crew Toni, Tammy, Jason, Lacy, Robert, and Kiristen! And last but not least Troy (yes we know you just drink)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now back to the problem at hand. For all of you who are unaware Dallas, who was 13-3 during the regular season (a tied team recorded best), lost yesterday to the New York Giants 21-17. From a Cowboy fan perspective it was a dismal performance with Clayton dropping 3 critical passes, Tony Romo continuously overthrowing passes and getting sacked. This is a team that I praised as a contender for this years superbowl and their performance was similar to that of any recent Brittney Spears concert (can we say WACK).

When you love a team like I love the Cowboys and you go through that emotional ride of the regular season and finally make it to the playoffs it is like a slap in the face to see them throw it all away but not because of lack of talent but due to poor preparation, committment, and just a arrogant carelessness.

Tony Romo received a $66 million dollar contract to play football and the week before the playoff game he flys to Mexico for a weekend with his girlfriend Jessica Simpson. Not saying that in normal circumstances there is anything wrong with that but do you think Brett Farve or Payton Manning were taking vacations??? Or were they at home studying film and making sure they were the best they could be???

Pride cometh before a fall and the Cowboy's in their arrogance failed to properly prepare mentally for this game. It never occurred to them that they could lose. So what, they had beat the Giants two times during the regular season they were a different team then, now in the playoffs when it really counted the Giants put everything on the line.

So my advice to you is BE PREPARED mentally for this game we call life and if you really want something go for it! Remember you win some and you lose some, while losing is painful it is always better when you give it your all. At least there are no regrets because you did everything you could do to prepare. Unlike Tony Romo who will have to hear Jessica Simpson jokes for the rest of his life! But didn't she look fab in her pink TR jersey at the Redskins/Dallas game???

Till next time

Tiffany B.

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It Shall Be Mine!

Hello Fashion Lovers!

Neiman Marcus is in the process of getting in their spring lines for the upcoming season. Let me tell you it is going to be FIRE! New lines coming in from Bamford, Pringle of Scotland (my personal favorite), Graeme Black, and Jimmy Choo are just a few of the names to choose from.

But what has caught my eye (now I just need my wallet to catch up ) is the Fendi Spy Bag in Pomergranate ($2250), I made mention of it earlier this week and I must confess I WANT this bag! It is a timeless piece forever in season and this spring is available in a scrumptous color! I long to let is dangle from my wrist and shoulder to smell the soft leather...ok ok ok I am snapping out of it!

Now normally I write about fashion that we all can afford because honestly I am tired of looking at a fashion magazine and all you see is tops for $350 and pants for $550. I mean honestly none of that stuff is in my closet. Is it in yours??? If so please let me know what occupation is allowing to afford all this wonderful fashion. Oh and as a side note can you hire me? Please???

Anyway as we go into the new year and we have seen some truely inspirational writing on this blog about increase, prosperity, and financial freedom. I say "DARE TO DREAM!!!!!!!!!!!!" One day my pocketbook will catch up to my love of fashion and I will have a Fendi Spy Bag!

Now if that day never comes I say we all start the FWM Foundation where stores, boutiques, entertainers, philanthropist, and fashion designers can all donate money or part of their fashion lines to those less fortunate. I mean just because my tops aren't $350 doesn't mean that I don't recognize a fierce outfit from Pringle of Scotland and love it just as much!

In closing I hope your love of fashion like mine is not defined by the price of the object but in the love of the design and recognition of the talent that was used in the design. Dare to dream ladies dare to dream!

Tiffany B.

Be Careful What You Wish For

Greetings Bloggers!

Have you ever noticed that we are always wishing for the things that we don’t have. We wish for everything from new houses and cars to new body shapes, jobs, men, cell phones, you name it. Let me share something with you.

About 3 years ago I had the job from HELL. I think Satan himself personally hired me for it. I hated my job; I had a toddler to take care of; I was tired all of the time. I often found myself saying, “I would love to be a housewife.” Guess what? I got exactly what I asked for only not HOW I wanted it.

I was fortunate enough to get another job and get out of HELL. Everything was great; I was on top of the world. I landed my dream job, ridiculous salary, company car, paid cell phone, gas, and free lunch everyday. I could buy whatever I wanted; I was on top of the world. One year later, I was laid off along with 700 other people. I was now a housewife!!

I took sometime off to enjoy my severance package. Finally, after 4 months of being at home I was bored. My son was at school and my friends were working. I had no one to talk to during the day. I love television but one can only watch so many reruns. After my unemployment benefits ran out I decided to look for a job. Nothing!

Down on my luck, I began to pray more than ever, desperate for answers. After a year it came to me. “This is exactly what I asked for!” Are you kidding me?

Let me make this short and sweet. I was a housewife for 2 years!! For two years I’ve been completely dependent on other people: my husband for money, my mom for transportation. You name it, I needed it. There is however a happy ending to this story, I GOT A NEW JOB!!

YEAH BOYYEEEEE!!!!

My friends be very careful what you wish for. You never know how you may receive it!!

Your favorite gal pal,
KC

Joel Osteen “Your Best Life Now”
Creflo Dollar “Claim Your Victory”
The Holy Bible – King James/NIV